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DETTY DECEMBER guide FRSC warnings aside, the most dangerous thing about December is that it’s right before January. And you see January? Hmm. It has 61 days. If your'e not careful,your parte after parte December would become a debte after debte one So before you get reckless with money over the next three weeks, let’s agree on a few things. 1. You won’t attend shows featuring the same artistes. How many times are we going to listen to the same songs live, really? If two shows feature 75% of the same artistes without any special guests, skip one and save money. 2. You will set a budget. Because you can never overplan to spend. 3. You will eat before you go out (because there’s always rice at home). A full stomach equals some money saved. Sure, it may mean there’ll be less vigorous dancing at first but you’ll get lighter as the night progresses. 4. You will turn on Spend+Save (and keep it on). Even when you’re spending on budget, it’s good to know that something is be

You Don’t Have to Quit Social Media Getting off the ‘gram probably won’t improve your life.. ’T is the season for dreaming of your ideal self: The healthier, wiser, more productive person you’ll be as soon as the calendar turns and all your resolutions kick into gear. Once you purchase that extra-fancy gym membership, you tell yourself, you’ll become the type of person who voluntarily — joyfully, even — goes on long, early morning runs. Maybe you’ll start posting sweaty selfies captioned with marathon times. Or, scratch that, maybe this will be the year that you finally leave Instagram. I’m not here to convince you out of the gym thing. But if part of your journey into the new decade does include plans to get off social media, there’s something you should know: It might not make you any happier. A new study published in the journal Media Psychology found that abstaining from social media, even for as long as a month, had no noticeable impact on people’s reported levels of lonelines

The Psychology Behind Remaining in Toxic Relationships Have you ever known someone — a friend, a family member, or an acquaintance — who’s essentially stuck in a romantic relationship that’s unhealthy? And when I say unhealthy , I’m not referencing circumstantial discord and bumps in the road; it’s more of an inherent lack of compatibility where troubling, or even disturbing , issues ensue. Chances are, many of us have heard accounts of toxic relationships that continue to persist. Granted, as an outsider, we never truly know what another’s relationship is like on a day-to-day basis, nor are we privy to their emotional intimacies on a deeper level; however, the ‘outsider perspective’ also allows us to listen and observe from a clean slate; from a place of clarity. Whether it’s a sad and unfortunate case of emotional abuse, or whether you consistently hear (from one or both parties) that there’s fundamental differences and real chronic problems, these romantic relat

THE SILENT KILLER OF RELATIONSHIPS I have a temper. It’s something I work on, but it’s not something I try to hide. I talk openly about having one and how I try to control it or, at the very least, express it appropriately. I used to know rage well — and not just the road variety either. My anger comes out less these days, but not because I don’t feel it. Every day, there’s a fresh news story reminding me that people, women in particular, have plenty of reasons for rage. But what I’ve found interesting over the years is that my anger when unleashed might be a fearsome thing, but it’s not as dangerous as my quiet. I was in so many relationships where worry was directed at my anger, not my silence. Arguments were seen as potential problems, but my silence was ignored. I never deployed silence as a tactic. It wasn’t a cold shoulder in response to offending behavior. Silence, for me, was the place where I went when all my emotions collided into something so much l

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I HAVE DECIDED TO POST ONE OF MY  POEM S   For Passion And Love For passion; for love, I envoke thee. I want to feel his lips upon my mouth, his hand upon my breast. I don't beleive there'll be a single place, that won't be caressed. For love; For passion, I envoke thee. The sweet words he'll whisper, the look in his eye, the way he'll make me feel. Oh, I could just die!! I envoke thee; I envoke thee, For passion; for love, for tenderness, and for lust.