Gerry's Corner

I was scrolling through my whatsapp stories when I came across a post from someone saying " bestie is the real deal, dating is just a title". I was visibly pissed and you might say triggered. I'm sure we have also come across similar joke's from our Instagram comedians in their skits.  The role of a best friend/bestie has been so devalued lately in Nigeria. Where we are supposed to value the individuality of a bestie of the opposite gender, I hear it's more about sexualy escapades at the expense of one party being in a relationship with someone else.  This doesn't sit right with me in any sense, cause I'm a Disney child, I grew up with SHAKE IT UP (CeCe and Rocky), AUSTIN AND ALLY (the two secondary characters) where the definition of a best friend was someone who would stick to you no matter the situation and gear you up to perform at your best and vice versa.  It wasn't a pathetic excuse to cheat,  it's supposed to be you putting your hormones in...

Welcome back 🙂, it's been a very long time. Here's a piece I've been working on lately, please enjoy and leave a comment.🤗🤗 Intance, I'm texting a girl, probably in the night like 8pm, we're going on back to back, had a cool night. Two days after I texted again just to check up on you, the next thing is that you've left me on read....  I'm pissed already by this point. I try to calm myself, I'm not really a patient person. I try to ignore checking if like 2hrs after being left on read I'm not given a reply because at this point it's up to the person who is viewing it to scroll down to reply. This then depends on your level of importance to the person. A day after I text again and I get the same cycle. The blue tick with no reply.  This is why I don't text much, cause I hate being left on read. But there are genuine reasons why you can be left on read... * The person is busy *The person has forgotten they opened the message *The person has ...